Before you Yell at your Wife in front of your Child, Read this

Mothers day didn't went well for my daughter Prerna cause of me. Yes, it was me who ruined it for her. It was her first mother's day since she has started the school. Everything was going good until she wore the yellow dress which I have bought it for her on her 3rd birthday.

The dress has a color stain on the top, so I send some hack video to her mother for remove those stains and she did but left a sticky blue jelly on the skirt. So the next day when we getting her ready for school I saw that blue jelly stain and asked my wife Neetu about that. She said that she tried but it won't go off and I was already pissed on her for something related to potty thing about Prerna. I will share this thing some next time.

So I started rubbing that stain with a wet cloth and slowly slowly it was started to going off. Then I was getting more angry and having doubt that she was just giving excuses for ignoring that stain or she might didn't noticed that stain. But giving acceptance about forgetting that stain, Instead she was giving excuses that she tried to clean it but it couldn't get cleaned and that triggered my anger so much. I yelled on her in front of Prerna, while my daughter was watching the whole situation. The whole thing made my daughter upset and the school bus also arrived early on that day. So without giving her breakfast properly, she had to leave for the school. We couldn't click a picture of that day or give her a school bye kiss or hug. The morning went in full rush and stress.

When she left for school, my day become more stressed and I got stuck in over-thinking loop that never ends. When I came to the office and was still thinking about that. I was thinking once my daughter reaches home back, I'll tell her sorry for the morning on the video call as the first thing then I can feel free to continue my day job.

I din't take any picture on my own that day, but got some pictures of her from school. She seems little sad to me. I also asked her that if she was sad or upset in the school, she told me that she was fine.

Prerna is in yellow top and skirt

I hope she was really fine. But that day made me realize one thing. Children may forget the reason behind our anger, or they don't care about reasons. But they don't forget the feeling of that moment. One thing I learned is, children don't just remember special days, they also remember how we made them feel on those days. I hope that this morning won't become one of those memories for her.

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