One Habit that slowly damages Husband Wife Relationship

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Me, my wife and daughter
Just got hung up with my wife Neetu and got depressed. We were discussing about our daughter's school uniform. So I called her to wash her's white dress cause it's white dress day. She said she have already washed it up and have it ironed.

And I was telling her that the t-shirt shouldn't be pressed cause it's fabric is not iron friendly, only skirt needs to be ironed. Then she replied "Pta h yar itna to" in a harsh tone. This made me feel very bad. And I told I wasn't taunting you or making you feel low about it. I was just letting you know about that. And she said "no..no m bhi bas waise hi kah rhi thi". All this event made me depressed and and I'm still thinking about it even after the call was ended. It's been more then hour and still thinking about it.

My wife and I had totally opposite childhood and upbringing experience. As compared to my wife I'm having more advantage in real life experience about lifestyle, gadgets, technology, education, career and many other things. We have 8 years of age difference and got married once after she completed her schooling after 12th standard. We have been married for 4 year now. We have a huge difference of thoughts and lifestyle.

I'm not writing about all of my married life struggles, you get them all eventually. Let's come to the point, I wanted to share the experiences and lessons I've learned over the years so that together we could build a better and more comfortable life for ourselves and our daughter. This uniform thing was just an example, there are multiple things. But she takes all wrong sometimes and that makes me depressed. After 4 years of marriage it's started to feel hurt when such events occurs. Feels like what I gonna do, how I gonna be make myself compatible with her. Initially when the marriage is new, these things got ignored by me and I thought over the time like it'll be alright.

The issue is not about that a little harsh tone, it's the same mistakes done by my wife over the years after alarming her so many times to improve the things which can make peace and love between us.

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